Open Adoptions

For many years, Catholic Charities has provided homes for many children, and have counseled birthmothers in their time of need.  In recent years, the trend in adoption has been open adoptions.  Dr. Randolph Severson states a working definition of open adoption is: "Openness means that everyone involved in the process, whether adoptive or birth parents, is open to meeting and talking with each other prior to, and subsequent to, placement.  How much communication and contact will occur is impossible to say.  But, in an open adoption, the assumption exists that there will be as much as possible within the limits of courage, compassion and common sense."

Openness can look many different ways.  The type of relationship is decided upon by both parties. One thing it never is co-parenting.  As with all relationships, it is constantly changing and evolving. It is important to note that it is in no way a legal relationship.  It should not be confused with joint custody or visitation as seen in a divorce.  It is a relationship built on trust and respect.  The birthmother trusts the adoptive parents with the life and care of her child and that they are being honest with all they have agreed to with regards to openness.  The adoptive parents are often trusting the birthparents to provide complete information about the child, and that they will be respectful of the boundaries the adoptive parents have set.

For questions regarding open adoptions, please contact Linda Christianson at 214-526-2772,
Ext. 112.